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by GRUMPY PIRATE » Sat Mar 15, 2008 10:55 pm
Well, I have seen a lot of the "no spanking" theory, the joke is that you don't know its effective until its too late.
A smack to the rear and a stern NO corrects the problem post haste, its a quick and sure correction. the NO tells them they did something wrong, and the smack to the behind, where they were provided extra padding for just that occasion, helps them remember it quickly. It also lets them know that there ARE boundries that they should not cross. The beauty is that you only have to do it once or twice when they are small, the memory of the stern NO will then take its place.
AS I have stated before, I have been successful in raising several kids, who are by no means meek and mild!
The other ones ...well, a certain number of them never are corrected, or grow up to believe that they can do anything that they want, and they, of course, become the SG's that we so despise.
The other, more hard core self centered ones, become the reason why we have to make and unbelieveable amount of laws, and employ police forces.
But I guess security forces and law enforcement need job security!!
:pirateflaARRRRRRR YA DOIN'?