This is a great post, thank you for writing it. I personally (since I can only speak for myself) that that's the best thing any of us can do- offer silent tribute.Stripes wrote:Syndrome has the best idea...silent tribute.
I wanted to do something too for the CMs, but after reading BW's post (#6) decided the best thing I personally could do was try to get others to honor his and their wishes.
Emotions are still raw and, I have to believe that between the SGs, the SM (stupid media) that there hasn't even been time for many of the CMs to even grieve.
I am also wearing a silent tribute, saying a lot of prayers, shedding a lot of tears and other than that keeping quiet.
This is why I have decided that I am not going to be posting about my trip or the vigil itself.
To me there was a sacredness about the whole thing - the trip from beginning to end and also about the vigil itself- that would be damaged by doing so. I hope that people here won't be upset by this but honestly, with apologies in advance if you are- my main concern has to be the Monorail CMs.
All I will say is this.
I made sure, before I left, that every one of them that I had a chance to interact with, knew how much their guests, their fellow CMs at other parks, all of us, feel for them at this time. I did my best. I gave a lot of hugs and got even more.
I spent the whole day Saturday before the vigil going around thanking CMs. Searching them out to do so. Not just monorail CMs but cms EVERYWHERE. You should have seen the looks on their faces and there wasn't a single one that didn't thank me for saying thank you. So that just goes to show me that they need to hear it a lot more often than they do.
I told them that I was but one person representing many who appreciate them more than they know. in talking with the monorail folks, I made sure they knew that 'many', are all those online and elsewhere who wished they could do more and didn't know what to do or say.
My advice to those who may be going to WDW soon is, just be kind. Smile at them. Thank them when they open the monorail gate for you to let you on the train. Use any and all chances to say those two words. They are meaningful and they are powerful.
Be the good, polite, kind guests that others aren't. Say thank you to them for all they do to make magic for their guests, and leave it at that.
Believe me, hearing those two simple words, "thank you", will mean more to them than any ribbon or pin a guest could wear and don't carry the risk of upsetting them if they see something that is a painful reminder.
We have to remember we're all on the outside looking in. We can't know what they're going through. That's why I feel so strongly that Stripes has the best idea.
Silent tribute, in honor of their quiet strength. These people are brave beyond all imagination and I love them from the bottom of my heart.
hugs to all
Bru