I'd like to thank those who gave me a warm welcome. I love the psychedelic graphic, hobie16! Also your signature.
It looks like drcorey is trying to revive the topic, which would be great because it was a hell of a read!
And thank you, Whazzup. You're right, I think Freak seriously misinterpreted my intentions. Let me explain.
Freak wrote:Way to bring a 3 year old thread back. BTW, nothing wrong with this thread. Move along, move along. Don't see how or why you think this site is at fault for it. She was a stupid guest, the end. Stop playing the race card.
(I'm sorry, I know this is really long.)
I know it's an old thread. Unfortunately, the thread was posted in the racist forum only at the tail end of July and discussion went into August. That's part of my point. Anything you say online can live forever.
I never said there was anything wrong with this thread. Actually, it's a great thread and really interesting, which is why I decided to keep checking out this forum.
I know that this site is not at fault and that no one here did anything wrong or had any bad intentions.
The person who posted this wasn't necessarily stupid, IMO. Probably just made what I consider to be a mistake. (Or maybe Whazzup is right and they're, in fact, the offender.) I know that person only made one post, but I noticed other references to the races of offenders on these forums. The problem is that the people posting these are merely using those terms as descriptions to paint a picture, but this proves how badly their words can be twisted.
Ultimately, I brought this to this forum because it was something that, if I were an active member of a given forum, I'd like to know about so I could avoid it. I actually thought about it for a few days before finally deciding to say something. It just really stuck with me that a totally innocent forum had unknowingly been targeted this way.
For the record, the phrase "playing the race card" is usually used to indicate an intentional obfuscation of a real issue to try to gain an advantage in a dispute. For instance, when someone accuses someone else of racism because it's a convenient way to exonerate themselves or someone with whom they're siding from extremely bad or criminal behavior. Bringing up that there are racists in the world, and they snagged a topic on this forum, isn't the same thing.
I didn't mean to offend you or anybody else. I'm not picking on this forum, I think it's really awesome and there's nothing wrong with this topic.
But it's because I think your forum is cool that I decided the right thing to do would be to point this out to you. It's what I'd want someone to do for one of my favorite forums. If it's not what you consider appropriate, I'm sorry, I meant no harm.
Hope I've made myself clearer this time.