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by Big Wallaby » Tue Dec 18, 2012 2:14 am
Hi folks.
This thread has gone into the political realm. We have had multiple people who haven't even given agreement or disagreement comment that they fear the direction that this thread, and the disagreement it could spark between members of SGT, could provoke.
The members who have come to us I personally know to come from opposite sides of the political spectrum, with different views on this issue. They are all people I respect, though some I agree with on this issue and some I do not. But in the end, when we do discuss such major issues as this... and trust me, it IS major and important that it be discussed... SGT may or may not be the proper time and place.
This is a discussion in which the base on both sides is fear, either of one type of person or group of people, or another. Because fear is so heavily laced into this discussion, it doesn't take long before emotions run high, and a discussion of something of extreme importance like this can turn ugly very, very quickly. I have watched too many friends torn apart by emotional political debate, and I will not sit idly by and watch that happen here.
I, for one, have absolutely no intention of saying, nor do I believe that anyone has done any wrong in this thread, in stating their opinions thus far. I am sure that if I really wanted to I could find point fingers, but I see no reason to do that, I don't want to do it and I think it would be wrong to do to anyone who has posted in this thread for anything said. The thread has been kept civil; I just really don't want to wake up in the morning and discover that someone said something that brought together some dynamite and a flame.
Therefore, while the Mod team discusses they laying of some ground rules for this thread, as well as whether we really want to see such politically dangerous discussion played out on a site like SGT, I have closed this thread. Over the next day or so a decision will be made, and the answer will be listed here.
Hobie: Thank you for what you were doing here in remembering those killed so tragically. This terrible event in Connecticut must never be forgotten. Two members of this board have been more than just uncomfortably close to a school shooting in their lives: In 1998 I was visiting my grandmother, her house almost walking distance from Thurston High School in Springfield, Oregon when a 15-year-old student killed two of his classmates there. I was in high school at the time and so it did hit close to home.
Shortly after the news came out in Connecticut, I received a text message from Monorail_Red. He had been at the school where he works. His home is essentially halfway between the two schools. He is working through the thoughts and feelings, and is still a bit shaken up, understandably.
But we are not the only ones touched by these tragedies. If you have a child or children, or children in your life that you care about, you are affected by this. Several days ago, your kids might have joked about surviving the day at school. Today that's not funny, and in my mind it may never be again. This situation hits way too close to home for all of us. I can still imagine all the kids that I had on my school bus when I drove one. Had even one of those children gone to school and not made it home for any reason, I would not have dealt with it well. In my church and business, I have friends who have children that I interact and even play with on a regular basis and they bring out every ounce of my protective streak. I can't imagine how much stronger that is when the children are yours.
So we may or may not continue this discussion; I honestly don't know. But I do have one request. Those of you who have children... make sure once again that they know you love them. Make sure they know how precious they are to you. And when all is said and done, no matter which side and which solution to this kind of senseless violence you believe in, I trust and know that your reason for believing what you do is out of that love and desire to protect your children. In so many other issues, you can look at the people on the opposing side from your own and wonder what the hell they're thinking. But at the end of the day, this discussion and debate is the only one where everyone on both sides (and again, I am talking about the normal people that you and I come into contact with, not government officials who spend a lot of time in Washington, D.C. or at your city/state's official buildings) want the same thing: They want to know that their children will live a long, full life.
My opinions are mine and mine only. If my opinions are the opinion of others who happen to share whatever my crazy views may be, then fine, but it's not because I represent them in having my opinions. Got it?