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Re: Maybe I'm just short-tempered, and can I slap the parents?

Posted: Sun Apr 04, 2010 8:09 am
by Mayonnaise
LucyintheSky wrote:Maybe I'm a mean mommy, but he needs to know I mean business!
What the world needs now are more Mean Mothers.

8^)

Re: Maybe I'm just short-tempered, and can I slap the parents?

Posted: Sun Apr 04, 2010 8:44 am
by Piper
I always told my kids that being "mean" was my job--what did they think MOM stood for anyway?-----Mean Old Mother!!!!


On another note--you would not believe how many parents come to parent/teacher conferences and ask me to parent their kids! ex: "Would you tell Johnny he has to go to bed when I say? He'll do what you tell him." "Tell Johnny to pick up his toys. I don't know why he'll clean up at school--he doesn't do it at home."

Uh, yeah, Johnny knows I mean what I say. I expect him to follow directions. Shelves have pictures of what goes on them and if things are not put back correctly, you don't get to "play" until you "fix it."

Another thing that bothers me is the number of parents who don't realize their Pre-K child can read! Twenty-two of my forty students are reading this year and more than half the parents didn't realize it. A couple of them even tried to argue with me until I had them pick out a book for their child to read to them! My kids are so excited to be reading that they drive me nuts (in a good way) reading everything they see (on the way to the playground, going to the library, in the classroom, etc.) How can their parents NOT know?

Re: Maybe I'm just short-tempered, and can I slap the parents?

Posted: Sun Apr 04, 2010 10:24 am
by mapo
See BW, you are so much nicer than I am...

My conversation:

DOWN...NOW!

(SG teen ignoring me/Mom being stupid)

Get Down Now.....or be evicted from WDW! *intimidating glare*

If teen gets down....watch until idiot gets in car and leaves.
If not, hit E stop....call on radio for OCSO and manager.

**end conversation.**

Yeah, love it when I have lost my patience before the damned holiday.

My goal? Everyone goes home the way they came in -- in one piece and alive.

MAPO

Re: Maybe I'm just short-tempered, and can I slap the parents?

Posted: Sun Apr 04, 2010 2:42 pm
by delsdad
Big Wallaby wrote:Overheard today* (if you were on the platform with me):

Me, to teen sitting on a gate: Please come down from there.

Mom: Don't you tell my son what to do!

Me, to Mom: Ma'am, please. That gate is a very dangerous place to be sitting.

Mom: That's for me to decide. The worst that could happen is he could fall.
MAJOR FAIL for mom! This attitude should result in an automatic and instant ejection from property. This is outright refusal to follow the safety direction of a cast member. The kid can stay because he showed some initiative and followed your direction to get down. But mom needs to be escorted out by security, and perhaps have a chat with child services.
Note that I did not capitalize mom. She doesn't deserve any capital letters !

Re: Maybe I'm just short-tempered, and can I slap the parents?

Posted: Sun Apr 04, 2010 8:07 pm
by Syndrome
Big Wallaby wrote:Overheard today* (if you were on the platform with me):

Me, to teen sitting on a gate: Please come down from there.

Mom: Don't you tell my son what to do!

Me, to Mom: Ma'am, please. That gate is a very dangerous place to be sitting.

Mom: That's for me to decide. The worst that could happen is he could fall.
I think you forgot part of it: "The worst that could happen is he could fall and then I could sue the hell out of Disney for having an attractive nuisence."

Re: Maybe I'm just short-tempered, and can I slap the parents?

Posted: Sun Apr 04, 2010 9:26 pm
by mapo
delsdad wrote:MAJOR FAIL for mom! This attitude should result in an automatic and instant ejection from property. This is outright refusal to follow the safety direction of a cast member. The kid can stay because he showed some initiative and followed your direction to get down. But mom needs to be escorted out by security, and perhaps have a chat with child services.
Note that I did not capitalize mom. She doesn't deserve any capital letters !
Nope, kid can't stay either. The kid needs suitable supervision from a guardian. No, this does not include Disney CMs.

Plus, they would be so busy being trespassed, evicted, and dealing with child services that their day is now full.

MAPO

Re: Maybe I'm just short-tempered, and can I slap the parents?

Posted: Sun Apr 04, 2010 10:54 pm
by DisneyMom
Big Wallaby wrote:Overheard today* (if you were on the platform with me):

Me, to teen sitting on a gate: Please come down from there.

Mom: Don't you tell my son what to do!

Me, to Mom: Ma'am, please. That gate is a very dangerous place to be sitting.

Mom: That's for me to decide. The worst that could happen is he could fall.

Me: You're right, ma'am. The worst thing that could happen is that he would fall. Onto the bus bar at the bottom of this trough. That bus bar has six -hundred-and-some-change-volts ........
Did you tell her that you sure hope that someone around knows CPR? Unfortunately, even under the best circumstances, it only revives a fraction of the people who get it, and even if revived, only a portion of those survive to hospital discharge :cool:
Unfortunately, the How-Dare-You-Say-Anything-To-My-Kid Psycho Mom is not all that rare :rolleyes:

Re: Maybe I'm just short-tempered, and can I slap the parents?

Posted: Sun Apr 04, 2010 10:59 pm
by DisneyMom
Piper wrote: Another thing that bothers me is the number of parents who don't realize their Pre-K child can read! Twenty-two of my forty students are reading this year and more than half the parents didn't realize it. How can their parents NOT know?
I figured it out from all of the writing in crayon on my walls! :cool:

Re: Maybe I'm just short-tempered, and can I slap the parents?

Posted: Sun Apr 04, 2010 11:11 pm
by turkeyham
Today after the afternoon earthquake, all the attractions went 101. The parents blamed the CM's for the rides going down and evacuating the area.

Why blame the park after a natural disaster?

The poor CM at BTRR were in front of the enterence and were turning SG away. Those SG need a major slap. I would hate to see what happened to City Hall.

After a earthquake, does DL give SG refunds?

Re: Maybe I'm just short-tempered, and can I slap the parents?

Posted: Mon Apr 05, 2010 7:18 am
by DragonFox98
Sorry you had to deal with this. Although, this is why we try to go off peak times to WDW....I don't think I could handle it packed. I have a short temper and, even in the most magical place on Earth, I will speak my mind if a SG does something, well, stupid. My hubby tries to keep me quiet, and for the most part I respect his wishes, but if someone bumps my kid trying to get in front of my family in a line....god help them.

We usually get curbside (or ropeside, as it were) seats in Liberty Square for Spectro (my favorite parade). I can't tell you how many times the kids and I (the older two) have been sitting there, crossed-legged, reminiscing about our day and some SG plops their kid IN FRONT OF US. Now, mind you, we're sitting at the edge of the rope (just behind it). Thank goodness I usually try and chat up the CMs, because they never fail to come over, ask me to move my child behind the rope, and I look up, smile, and say "that's not my child". Then, the kid gets moved to where the parents are standing....usually five people back. Now, I've been asked before it kids can come and sit with me and my children (cause I am not a SG and get prime seats) and we always make room for them....I actually have some really great pics from a couple years ago where all four kids (their two and our two) are playing with glow sticks together.

Although, I'll tell you, having a trashcan pushed into me.....no way I'd stand for it....I probably would have requested the nearest CM get security.