Stupid Guest Tricks

Hai thar!

I've been diving once a week at a local aquarium, which has been amazing. I'm sharing a tank with (among many other animals) a nine-foot pregnant shark named Debbie Kay.

What have you been up to?

I don't think that women should be made into objects because of what they wear, but, to totally dismiss any blame for certain attentions from the victim is also unacceptable. As for different cultures, well, I'm referring to this one. I don't really care what thing floats the boats of other culture...

So what you are saying is that as a species we are to completely deny any and all sexuality. That it is the responsibility of the bystander to never react to anyone else's behavior regardless of it's possible consequence. That you don't think that, regardless of her age, that young lady wasn't awar...

Zazu was policing her body along with her behavior, and that's why I disagree with how he handled it. If that had been me at fifteen, I would have been mortified and it would have ruined my day. Conversely, if I'd been told at fifteen to stop bouncing into someone, with no reference to "rubbing...

ktulu wrote:Ugh, really? Oh wait, never-mind. I'm not surprised.

Sometimes I wonder if this site is just not something some people should participate in. Anyway, well said Disneymom :)

I'm sorry, was that a backhanded insult directed at me?

I didn't, at the time. Only here, and then only for comic effect. ...You didn't? Then what did you say? What you quoted in your first message was pretty clear, if that's what you actually said to her, especially the line about "rubbing her body against yours." Perhaps, but there is a qual...

Zazu, was it really necessary to call attention to the young lady's breasts? It sounds like she kept running into you in line, which is annoying, and that's the behavior that should be called out. There's no need to bring up her breasts. A random stranger bringing up her sexuality at Disneyland, esp...

Try to find characters who don't have lines. Less popular characters, like Gideon, might be out there with no one to interact with, while more popular ones like Mickey might have a line a mile long. Don't pass someone by just because they're not your favorite; it might be your best interaction on yo...

Alyssa, I'm so sorry you're going through that. I'm appalled at your coworkers, who should know better. And you are right, cis and trans should be addressed in diversity training.

No, they don't.